Lavenia Cartright
Friday, August 12, 2011
Is there anyone out there that can relate to this? anyone have an opinion?
know that I shouldn't hate as bad as I do but right this very minute my blood is boiling. I'm basically venting. Our stepdaughter moved out last week because she turned 18 and wanted to go to a party but the night before the party she started hollaring at her dad so he told her to forget @ the party and she said she was leaving and going anyway. she has had a nasty attitude problem for a while especially towards me and my daughter. he told her that night that if she leaves dont come back! now he wants her to come back home for @ a week until she goes to grandmas. I know that if the shoe was on the other foot with my daughter that I would probably make my daughter learn her lesson. she made her bed why cant she lye in it? I am so happy that she's gone! I do not want her coming back even for a day. this probably sounds so bad but if you've been through what i have you'd understand. I told him that if she comes here, then I'm moving out. do you think I'm wrong? what's your story?
What song is playing in doctor who when Rose gets trapped in the other dimension?
Murray Gold specially composed a piece of music for Rose's farewell, entitled "Doomsday", which featured vocal work from Melanie Pappenheim.
Is it my responsibility to provide for my stepdaughter?
Your SIL is full of sh** and you know it; you already know you're not legally required to pay any support for your stepdaughter, that's your husband's responsibility. Your first (and in my opinion, ONLY) obligation is to YOUR child. When your husband starts working again, he can resume contributing to his child's support; it's not YOUR responsibility.
I need some advice, i'm the mother of a 17yr old daughter. she and her father are no longer on speaking terms.?
she and her father stop speaking when she and his stepdaughter, whom she has been friends with since preschool, got into an argument and he decided to take sides with the stepdaughter, mainly because of the wife, so he stop speaking to his daughter, now she and the stepdaughter are back friends and he still does not speak to his daughter. anyway, she has always been a daddy's girl and i know she is hurting, i try to assure her that i love her more than anything but there's nothing like a daddy's love, especially the fact that she's going into her senior year in high school, she's popular so she's a shoe in for homecomming court, prom court and debutant, in which all events young girls are escorted by their fathers, i feel he is being the child in all this, she doesn't disrespect him, she just stays away, but he'll pass by her as if she doesn't exist. how do i handle these up coming events to make them special for her, should i go to her father myself( we don't get along) or should i just her handle it, she's doing well without him, she plays all sports in school and she damn good, she's an honor student,and she has the best personality, i just don't want this to be a soar factor in her life
Do you think this is too much responsibility for a 15 year old?
Not at all!!! :) I think that's a wondeful opportunity and if do not allow it, it would actually be hindering her. If she's a good kid and shows responsibility I think that will help her tremendously. It's not always what you know either, it's who you know.
Is it weird to want to do this?
I have no kids but when it comes to my stepdaughter I have feelings of wanting to breastfeed her. No perversion at all. What can I do? She is 6 so she's too old anyway but is it my mother feelings coming out?
My stepdaughter is still stealing food?
Okay my stepdaughter (12 1/2 yrs old) came to live with us a few weeks ago because of some issues she was having with her mother (she doesnt feed them often, never spends time with them, etc) so the 12 1/2 yr old was acting out in school and got suspended for fighting for the 3 time in one yr.....anyway since she has come to live with us I've done everything to try and make her feel more comfortable even making up a closet hideaway for her for when she just wants to get away...her and our 5 yr old daughter has lots of fun together but the closet was for when she kinda just wants to be alonge.....when she first got here I noticed she was taking food and hiding it in her hideaway and when I go to clean up I find the empty container or wrappers...I've told her that whatever she wants to eat she can have it..... now she seems to be getting a lot more comfortable but almost a month later and she is still stealing food and leaving the nasty wrappers in places food should not be because I think she forgets their in their...what should I do without making her feel uncomfortable?
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